But when he asked to kiss her, his dedication to God was questioned and the young woman made him feel like slime. Christians can’t seem to agree on doctrine let alone personal conduct in a relationship.Particularly when it comes to kissing, we will never have a clear cut consensus among believers as to the appropriateness of how far one should (or can) go when dating.Also, it's important to note that we write our answers separately.
Her response seemed to be a little legalistic in nature and wrong for her to retaliate in such a way to such a courteous request from a close friend.If my friends know this about me, it makes be wonder how this woman's serious suitor was surprised to find she wanted to wait to kiss! Everyone is different regarding kissing before marriage. It is something you can find out about a person while you are friends.More than likely, if the person has been raised to only date those that are possible marriage material, then kissing is something you would want only for the "one." It's one thing to peck someones lips, but to french kiss takes you to a new level of intimacy. Now, as far as how she treated him, that tells me of her immaturity. Her reaction is way overblown and perhaps she is not ready to be married to begin with.Like many issues today, there is no black-and-white answer.Instead, the counsel of many Christian advisers is to ask God for guidance to show the direction to follow.