However, her advice is not about how to pick girls up, but about how to enhance their dating experience and engage in more meaningful relationships.
However, mindsets and perspectives can be changed to improve your overall dating experience and thus increase the possibility of romance," said the high-spirited Xu, who moved to the US at eight and is also a dancer and TV host.
Some might be born experts in the art of seduction, while others need a bit of help. The Beijing native started offering dating advice in New York City two years ago, and since then has seen her career rise.
She now coaches men face-to-face or online around the world, with a focus on Beijing and New York.
This Beijing native became a dating coach upon the request of male friends.
Now she runs a high-traffic blog (Singlefied.com) addressing many of her clients' most burning questions, splitting her time between New York and China’s capital.