“I've always been completely open about it with my partners,” says Emily*, a student at the Community College of Philadelphia.“When I'm ready, I'll tell them that I'm okay with things going further.Officers took control of the teenager's computer and arrested the man the next day, said Special Agent Supervisor Jeffrey Duncan of the Florida Department of Law Enforcement.The alleged predator has pleaded not guilty to multiple charges of soliciting a minor.
“Radical honesty is key.” Make sure you’re very clear with your boundaries in all aspects.
Some people only consider penetrative sex as sex, and others consider anal and oral as equal to penetrative sex.
That’s why it’s important to discuss the things you and your partner are willing to do so you aren’t taken by surprise by something you may not be comfortable with.
Sometimes we rush into things after a drunken frat party or night out at the bar, but it’s important to keep yourself safe.
Remember to discuss these topics before taking the next step!